I would like you to reflect on a subject matter that we have discussed in class up to this point. You may include your own opinion in this as well as some of the information that is troubling to you or that you were not aware of before this class. Two page requirement.
Topic- Communication and sexuality/ love and intimacy
. You are able to add your own reaction to the paper, I am going to add some notes from the class about this topic so you can also add notes from the power points as well.
. Include what you have learned and your reaction to the information I have included
. Be sure to have exactly 2 pages
NOTES:
Communication and Gender
Genderlects: women use rapport-talk (connection); men
use report-talk (information)
Women less assertive in conversation
tag questions, disclaimers, question statements, hedge
words
Categories of communication skills
Affective : comforting, listening
Instrumental: persuasive, narrative
Sexuality magnifies existing communication problems
in a relationship
Reciprocity: the more a couple talks during sex, the
more they will be able to talk about sex, and vice
versa.
Couples who communicate about sexual issues
report more relationship satisfaction
Positive self-images and feeling good versus fears
about body image and attractiveness
Fear, worry, and anxiety can decrease enjoyment of
sexual experiences
U.S. media role in creating the ideal body
We must accept ourselves before others can accept us
Talking about insecurities with partners can help them
understand and move us toward self-acceptance
Being a more effective listener
Some barriers: information overload, preoccupation with
personal concerns, rapid thoughts, and noise
interference
When others listen to us, we feel cared about, worthy,
and protected
Message interpretation
Interpreting a message is dependent on nature of the
relationship and your mood at the time
