When your partner inspires you to be the best version <!–td {border: 1px solid #ccc;}br {mso-data-placement:same-cell;}–> of yourself, its a key factor in realizing that he is the material for marriage, says Rory Sassoon, a dating expert. Being in a committed relationship with someone who pushes and propels you towards your aspirations and goals builds their confidence that they want the best for you, she explains. You may not be consciously thinking, I want to be better, but if you find that your partner encourages you to do things that enrich your career, family life, or health, this is most likely marriage material. And your engagement will push you to change even more for the better.