Challenge to Religions of Gender and Sexual Orientation Awakenings

how would you respond to the rather radical first statement below or the more moderate recommendation that follows it?
a. radical response: The Abrahamic religions are shot through with patriarchy and homophobia.  If women and/or LGBT+ individuals are to achieve true equality, they must leave the oppressive structures of the traditional religions and form their own denominations.”
b. more moderate response: “What do you think about the more open welcoming positions of churches and mosques like 1) the Protestant Disciples of Christ, a founding organization of Chapman / Brandman University, 2) Anglican, the English Catholic Church, or 3) the non-denominational Unitarian or Unity churches or 4) progressive Islamic groups such as linked here — https://www.mpvusa.org .
Be sure to include your definitions of what “patriarchy” and “homophobia” means with specific examples in your response.