Family-of-Origin Reflection Assignment (CO-3,4)
Our relationship expectations and desires are often formed by observing those closest to us (i.e., parents, grandparents, siblings, mentors, etc.). From those observations, we often decide we want to be similar to, or different from, the important people in our lives. For this assignment, in 3-4 pages, utilizing the information presented in course readings, discussions, and learning activities, reflect upon your family of origin (whatever that looks like for you). In your reflection, consider which members of your family of origin have been impactful, how the examples of significant relationships in your life have impacted your expectations for relationships in general (both positively and negatively), and how the three R’s (Roles, Rules, and Relationships—See Parrott and Parrott) may have influenced you from your family-of-origin. Also, reflect on your expectations for relationships (friendships, dating, marriage, etc.) based on your family-of-origin experiences. Use the following outline as a guideline for your reflection:
- Introduction
II. Overview of Most Impactful Family-of-Origin Person(s)
III. Relational Expectations from Family-of-Origin (address as many people as possible) - a) Roles
b) Rules
c) Relationships/Modeling - My Relationship Expectations
- a) Based on Family-of-Origin Experiences/Expectations b) Based on Other Factors (if present)
- Concluding Thoughts
See the Family-of-Origin Reflect rubric on the course site for further grading information.
Follows APA formatting and meets university grammar/writing expectations
Maximum score5
There is also a link to the Rubric, which lays out the grading points breakdown for the assignment. Here is a screenshot of part of it.
